Thursday, March 27, 2008

Abortion or marry?

Abortion or Marry?

Today heard about people at our age get marry because... the girl is pregnant. Is kind of common now a days to hear this type of news.

21 years old guy and a 20 years old girl.. still acceptable .. Those we read from news is even worse.. e.g 13/14 .. However, I still think is very young to get marry at this stage. While everyone is enjoying their college or university life. You starts to busy with your kids , husband and wife. You are now responsible for "Your Family" , financially and also your commitment is needed. The worse thing is you are still a student, and you financial is supported by your parents. That's really very irresponsible. How bout when your kids grown up? Their education? Financial? Being a parent is not that easy.

Since things already happened, we have to accept the fact. Abortion or get marry seems to be the only choice. According to norm of society, normally they will get marry. However, from my personal opinion, as a girl. I'll think abortion seems to be a better choice. If you have a baby at this age. I'll think the future is already ruin. You have no life after this since you have a kid to take care of. You might say, the mother or mother-in-law can take care of the kids while you go on with your life. However, I think is selfish to do so, is your mistake but you are taking away people's opportunity to enjoy life. And I'm sure you have to take care your kids on yourself sometimes. Physically ( e.g. financially and environment) and mentally both of you are not ready for the new life. Abortion is also taking away a human live, that's why.. don't make such mistake since the beginning if you are smart.

Getting marry like this does sound like some Taiwan drama right? Fall in love, date, pregnant, get marry.. live happily ever after??? I doubt the last one.. That's drama, but this is real life.. does thing like "happily ever after" happened?Every girl dream on that ,but is just a dream..

2 comments:

jacklynh88 said...

i agree with you..
but i would gives another option..
if u really wants to do it.. do all the precautions steps as safe as possible..
because both abortion or getting married at young age really ll ruins a girl's life..
no matter what a guy says..
It Stills Nothing To Do With Him, His Guilts/Responsible Feeling Will Never Last Long Like A Girl..

chin ying said...

Even when precautions step are taken, there are still possibility that "accident" might happen. Is the safest to not to do it, the possibility of having it will be zero.
Yup,when all this happened, the girl's life will be affected more than the guy.